Sex blog: Popular kink myths, debunked

There seems to be a lot of confusion and misinformation regarding kink, and I don’t mean the type of kink you get in a garden hose. In my experience, the kink community is vastly different than the whip-yielding, scary people many associate with it. It is in fact full of caring people, who simply express love in different ways. Here are some common myths about kink, debunked: People who do BDSM had a fucked-up childhood. Not necessarily. Just like all communities, there are of course some who have histories of abuse, but that is by no means everyone in kink. I, for example, had a wonderful childhood and turned out to be a submissive masochist. Try as I might, I can’t really […]

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Sex blog: Alternatives for when the bed keeps a-rockin’

Hearing your partner moaning in bed can be pretty hot. The bed itself moaning? Not so much. It’s a shame that financial and logistical constraints keep students from having access to well-oiled, solid-framed beds that are securely bolted to the floor away from walls. Until you have enough disposable income to invest in optimal sex furniture, you’ll probably have to deal with beds with varying levels of creakiness. And if you’re as paranoid about neighbours hearing too much as I am, unintended noise can be distracting. I’m all for exciting, loud rendez-vouses, and creaking sounds might not bug you—that’s cool, you do you (and whoever gives consent). Just remember that your roommates might not be down for the musical stylings […]

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Blog: Spice up you (sex) life

Living on your own can do wonders for your sex life. No longer do you have parents breathing down your neck, and your roommate (probably) won’t mind being locked out every once in awhile. But hey – maybe you’re finding sex a bit of a snooze. If so, you might consider bringing some toys into the bedroom. There’s a false idea about sex toys like dildos or vibrators being a sign of failure in a sexual relationship, but that’s quite far from the truth. We are, as people say, in a ‘hook-up culture.’ In this fast-paced society, we get bored of things quickly and constantly want new forms of entertainment. This often also applies to romantic partners. Emotionally, staying connected […]

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Blog: Flavoured Lube can be a tasty treat in the bedroom

Sexual activity of all stripes should always be a carnal funfest, but there’s no denying that sometimes sex doesn’t always go as smoothly as planned. Friction can be a major mood killer for all sexually active folks, and as awesome as it is to commingle bodily fluids with someone who finds you equally attractive, you may not always be digging the taste of your partner’s nether regions. Perhaps after a while, sex becomes a repetitive, predictable process devoid of exhilarating new sensations. This is where flavoured lube glides in to save the day. These bottles of sweet, slippery goodness have many uses, like making oral more fun to give and adding cool and slippery sensations. Flavoured lube is a great […]

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Sex blog: Navigating a summer fling

There’s really only one thing you need to know when puzzling out how to have a summer fling: communication is key (this can also apply to longer-term relationships). If this tip was all you needed, then exit this blog, get up and go have that mind-blowing summer sex (or whatever it is you’re in to). If not, keep reading, and by the time you’re done you’ll be on your way to a coffee shop or local bookstore to meet the guy or gal of your summer dreams. Figuring out what you want is an important part of your summer fling. Be it a one-night stands, sex, or romance, once you know what you want, it’ll be way easier to find […]

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